Mom of 6 shares tips for staying organized this summer and lessening the mental load—on everyone
Summer. A time for carefree fun, sun-kissed days, and endless possibilities. But for many parents, especially those with multiple children, it can quickly become a whirlwind of chaos and stress. Juggling summer camps, activities, and the ever-present “I’m bored!” chorus can leave you feeling overwhelmed and mentally drained.
But fear not, fellow parents! There’s a light at the end of the summer tunnel, and it’s called organization. Sarah, a mom of six from a bustling household, has mastered the art of staying organized during the summer months, and she’s sharing her secrets to help you and your family enjoy a stress-free summer.
1. Start with a Shared Family Calendar:
“We use a large, wall-mounted calendar where everyone can see it,” Sarah explains. “We mark down everything – camps, appointments, playdates, even birthday parties. This ensures everyone knows what’s happening and reduces the ‘Did I tell you?’ moments.”
2. The Power of Lists:
Sarah swears by lists. “I keep a running list of everything we need, from groceries to school supplies to summer activities. It’s like a brain dump for my mental load.”
3. Delegate Responsibilities:
Even young children can contribute! “My kids help with chores like setting the table or packing their own lunches. It teaches them responsibility and lightens the load on me,” Sarah says.
4. Embrace a “Summer Bucket List”:
“Instead of feeling overwhelmed by the endless possibilities, we create a ‘summer bucket list’ together. This allows us to choose activities that excite everyone and keeps the summer feeling fun and purposeful,” explains Sarah.
5. Schedule “Downtime”:
“It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of activities,” Sarah notes. “But we make sure to schedule time for relaxation and recharge, whether it’s reading a book, having a family movie night, or just spending time together without a structured agenda.”
6. The Art of “Just Say No”:
Sarah shares, “It’s okay to say no to things that feel overwhelming. We prioritize what’s important and don’t feel pressured to fill every minute of the day with activities.”
7. “Unstructured Playtime” is Key:
Sarah emphasizes the importance of letting kids just “be kids.” “Unstructured playtime, whether in the backyard or at the park, allows them to use their imaginations and develop their own creativity.”
8. Embrace Flexibility and Adaptability:
“Things rarely go according to plan,” Sarah laughs. “Having a flexible mindset and being able to adapt to unexpected changes will save you a lot of stress.”
By implementing these tips, Sarah and her family have created a summer that’s filled with fun, memories, and a sense of peace, even amidst the chaos. Remember, a little organization goes a long way in reducing the mental load and creating a summer everyone can enjoy. So, take a deep breath, embrace these strategies, and get ready to create a summer to remember!