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Home›Parenting›My Dad Belittled My Work For Years. Then I Received An Email That Told A Very Different Story.

My Dad Belittled My Work For Years. Then I Received An Email That Told A Very Different Story.

By Matthew Lynch
July 26, 2024
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The email arrived in my inbox like a stray dog, unannounced, unwelcomed. Subject line: “A Little Something for You.” I felt a familiar knot of dread in my stomach. It was from my dad.

For years, he’d been a constant source of criticism regarding my work. He’d chuckle dismissively at my “hobby,” as he called it, shake his head at my “unrealistic” aspirations, and scoff at my “lack of practicality.” His words, delivered with a casual shrug and a knowing look, had become a familiar soundtrack to my creative pursuits.

I was a writer. Not the kind who churned out bestsellers or landed prestigious literary awards, but someone who poured their soul into stories, who found solace in the rhythm of words, who believed that even the smallest of voices deserved to be heard.

But my dad didn’t see it that way. He saw a wasted effort, a pointless endeavor, a distraction from the “real world” he seemed so obsessed with. He was a man of logic, of numbers, of tangible achievements, and my creative pursuits simply didn’t fit into his narrow definition of success.

So, the email felt like a punch to the gut. A little something? What could it possibly be? Another lecture disguised as a “helpful tip?”

I clicked it open, bracing myself for the usual wave of negativity.

But the words that met my eyes were nothing like I expected. The email wasn’t a criticism, but an affirmation. It was a letter from a man named John, who wrote about a short story I’d published in a local literary magazine. He described how my words had touched him deeply, how they resonated with his own experiences, how they had sparked a sense of hope in him.

He didn’t know it, but John’s email was more than just a thank you note. It was a lifeline. It was a validation of my work, a reminder that my efforts weren’t in vain. It was a voice that countered the negativity that had been echoing in my head for so long.

I showed the email to my dad. He read it silently, his face unreadable. Then, with a hesitant smile, he said, “Well, I guess you’re doing something right.”

It wasn’t a grand apology, not a sweeping change of heart. But it was something. It was a crack in the wall of skepticism he’d built around my dreams, a glimpse of the possibility that maybe, just maybe, he saw a spark of potential in what I did.

That email wasn’t just about a single story. It was about the power of words, about the impact we have on each other, and about the courage it takes to keep creating even when the world seems to be telling you to stop. It was a reminder that sometimes, the most impactful validation comes from the most unexpected places, and that even the smallest voice can create ripples that reach far beyond our own shores.

And maybe, just maybe, it was the first step towards a new relationship with my dad, one built not on doubt and criticism, but on shared appreciation for the power of human connection and the magic that words can create.

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